The Difficult Relationship of the Empath

I read an article today I thought I would share called The Toxic Attraction Between an Empath and a Narcissist. While I find the article to be a little rough (and I certainly don’t agree with all of the generalizations) it did make me look at the relationships I have had with people a little differently… and therefore was worth the read.

Every bipolar support group I have gone to that has brought up personality categories or alternative views on bipolar symptoms as a “mental illness” has typically led to one word: empath.

An empath is someone who can easily find themselves feeling the emotions of others, and generally has little trouble imagining themselves in someone else’s shoes.

Needless to say, when I sat in a room of people with a bipolar diagnosis and found that every single one scored the same result (empath) I wasn’t surprised. I have known for a long time that the emotional state of those around me have a huge effect on my own emotions and that I have always had a genuine desire to help others (being able to feel and see situations from their perspective), but it took me many years to learn that there were people who were interested in manipulating these traits and that I needed to protect myself by being selective of the relationships I have with others.

One of the best things I have done for myself is to keep the relationships I have with open, genuine people and discard the rest.

At any rate, an interesting read… and if you’ve found yourself drawn to people who tend to hurt you (romantically or otherwise) check it out!

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3 responses to “The Difficult Relationship of the Empath

  1. Please write more about this, if possible. I am very interested in knowing more about your perspective regarding this topic. Excellent work, btw

  2. An amazing post. This explains a lot for me. Since I can remember I’ve been doing this without realizing what I was doing. It can be draining. Thank you for sharing.

  3. I didn’t even know there was a word for it and yes, I definitely could relate. This is a very useful post. I’ll look up more about the topic. I feel part of my BD has involved being a “bully magnet”, or a magnet for self-centered folks.

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